{"id":157302,"date":"2019-10-03T14:45:56","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T13:45:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/?p=157302"},"modified":"2019-10-03T14:55:37","modified_gmt":"2019-10-03T13:55:37","slug":"my-wife-turned-me-to-her-servant-man-tells-court","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/?p=157302","title":{"rendered":"My wife turned me to her servant &#8211; Man tells court"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/arewa.ng\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/Court-dissolves-7-year-old-marriage-over-threat-to-life.jpg\"><\/p>\n<div id=\"mvp-content-main\">Rahimi Ganiyu, a businessman, on Thursday, petitioned a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan to dissolve his 17-year-old marriage over his constant fear of his wife, Adijat Ganiyu.<\/p>\n<p>Ganiyu, a resident of Soka area in Ibadan explained told the court that his wife whom he married in 2002 had become a terror by constantly causing him apprehension and discomfort.<\/p>\n<p>He added that the only option he had left was to seek legal intervention in getting Adijat out of his house or she might get rid of him any moment from now.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor some years now, my cohabitation under the same roof with Adijat can best be described as passive or servant-master relationship because of the fear that my wife has instilled in me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf there is any misunderstanding between both of us, Adijat usually aim at my life and she does this by threatening me with a knife.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn fact, she recently got petrol in an attempt to set my house ablaze and it took the effort of well meaning people in the community to pacify her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI cannot count how many times Adijat has willfully destroyed my personal wears including; clothes shoes and other properties.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWorst still, she damaged my car key and the windscreen and I cannot allow her to kill me before my time,\u201d Ganiyu said.<\/p>\n<p>In her argument, the respondent opposed the suit and refuted all the allegations leveled against her.<\/p>\n<p>Adijat, however, prayed the court to consider the four children between both of them in dismissing her husband\u2019s divorce prayer.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy lord, none of the submissions made by Ganiyu against me is true, though we sometimes had quarrels.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe doesn\u2019t even fend for the children, let alone their feeding or mine.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI even suggested to him that I can jointly shoulder the responsibility with him. He, however, adamantly refused to do anything.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe quarreled because he never wanted to be responsible, he doesn\u2019t like paying the children\u2019s school fees,\u201d Adijat stated.<\/p>\n<p>The court\u2019s president, Chief Ademola Odunade, however, said the court was convinced that the allegation of threat to life was well proven against Adijat.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently, he dissolved the union and granted custody of the first two children to the plaintiff and the last two to the respondent.<\/p>\n<p>The Arbitrator also directed Ganiyu to pay N10, 000 as the children\u2019s monthly feeding allowance in addition to being responsible for their education and other welfare needs, NAN reports.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rahimi Ganiyu, a businessman, on Thursday, petitioned a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan to dissolve his 17-year-old marriage over his constant fear of his wife, Adijat Ganiyu. Ganiyu, a resident of Soka area in Ibadan explained told the court that his wife whom he married in 2002 had become a terror by constantly causing him [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":135170,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2830,3],"tags":[2658,8804,1517],"class_list":["post-157302","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-law","category-news","tag-a","tag-divorce","tag-ibadan"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157302","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=157302"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/157302\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/135170"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=157302"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=157302"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arewa.ng\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=157302"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}